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We wake up to our third day in this amazing city, Lhasa. We both got to sleep in from our night of singing and partying at Music Bar, and push ourselves to stumble over for breakfast at 9:30am! The whole group eventually lumbers in, … read more…
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Big Bear Lake, CA is an amazing place to have a home for vacation or permanent residence. I can’t say enough good things about this wonderful valley community nestled in the San Bernadino Mountains. So if the circumstances in your life … read more…
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Open Question: Lost – anyone have any ideas?
For two years, we had the most incredible relationship of my life. I mean a thousand times better than anything I could have ever dreamed of.
We had lots of time to take vacations and do things together – either just us or with friends and we always had a world of fun.
She now has a job where she works all the time. She leaves at 6:30am and gets home around 7pm at night. She is understandably exhausted by 10pm – often falling asleep by 9:30. Once every other week – she has to stay at work for social events (it is part of the job).
We went from having fun and enjoying each other’s company to barely seeing each other. She only gets three weeks off a year and I feel the relationship is utterly different. Intimacy has fallen away – we watch tv and she falls asleep on me. She loves this – I hate it. This is after we used to be intimate four or five times a week for the first two years and had an amazing physical and emotional relationship. Now, we eat dinner, watch an hour of tv and then she is snoring on me.
I want her to pursue her ambitions but I feel alone and like I am in a totally different relationship. I have told her my feelings but she refuses to talk about it – saying only that she has a right to work.
All of this change happened almost immediately after I proposed to her (she soon after took this new job). Now we are married and I am already deeply worried about where this is going. Before the wedding, she had said it was just because the job was new and that it would get better. Now, nearly a year later, I know this isn’t the case.
We don’t need the money and I really don’t want to fill my life with things outside of her. Besides, she wants me home to put her to bed so that kills my ability to really have a life outside of her anyway. Add to this the fact that I already see friends and family quite a bit and am not looking to vastly expand that part of my life.
I love her to death but I hate our relationship. This is our new reality after she had told me before we were married how important it was to have a live work balance.
I’m not sure there is anything to do – the situation is stuck and has little prospect of getting better. It leaves me feeling lonely and sad.
My choices seem to be to accept it and be lonely or fill my time with a life outside of her. I have a great job, good friends but to just give up on us really spending any time together would mean emotionally distancing myself to her and taking our relationship to a place I never wanted it to go.
I’m lost – thus posting here. Any thoughts? I am a great communicator but I just seem to get through to her how serious this is to me.
Thanks Jodi, actually I do give her an hour massage once a week – I do buy her flowers, send her e-mails about how much I love her. Honestly, I don’t want to do it any more – I feel resentment about it. Also, I should add that it isn’t fair for me to say she wants me to put her asleep. That’s more of an expression of what I feel my role in the relationship has deteriorated to. I really don’t want to pull the – ‘I’ll leave you card’ but then again, I’m not sure how this will change if I don’t do something. My worst fear is that I accept this, fill my life with other things and have an empty relationship that will just drift into divorce as we become different people.
Open Question: in love with a guy who has a gf and lives across the continent, what to do?
last spring i met the most amazing guy, spent the most amazing weekend of my life with him, ive never connected with someone like that before, and he felt the same, but it was his last weekend in town before going back home, across the continent…
we stayed in touch by emails, and the romance continued, even though i found out he had a girlfriend back home (he didnt know that i knew).
last week i went on vacation and for the last part of my trip, we planned for me and my friend to spend a week traveling with him and his friends on a crazy road trip. but i got sick with a bad flu that week, and even though things started off great, after a few days, his job, calls from his girlfriend, a huge fight with one of his friends all got to him, and he started avoiding me. when i talked to him about it and confessed i knew he had a girlfriend, he decided he couldnt go through with the rest of the trip, that it was too much stress, and that even though they had been fighting when he met me and during our emails, he had just recently fixed the relationship and he couldntt seperate himself from reality, he felt bad cheating and didnt want to mess up his life back home. I took it very badly, and personally, and it ended with us not speaking and him kicking me out of his life (literately, our trip took us to the middle of nowhere and he told my friend and i to take an 8 hour bus to get back on our own. we didnt say goodbye).
that was a week ago, im back home now, and i dont know what to do. I really really care about this guy, ive never met anyone like him before, and i know he feels that we had a deep connection. but heè;s right, we live a continent apart, and he has a life that ièm not a part of… but i still love him and still want him in my life. ièm so heartbroken, but i want him to be happy.
how can i convince him to talk to me again, as email friends…? i still have feelings for this guy, deep feelings, and i know that circumstances are against us, he lives across the continent and we both have our own lives, but i know that we are two unique people and that what we had when we met was once-in-a-lifetime, i want to keep this guy in my life, i care about him so much, who knows what the future holds… i just dont want to lose him, how do i tell him this without sounding crazy…
Resolved Question: Where are the vacation spots at on Amazing Vacation Homes?
I saw this one about a vacation home in mexico, probably on the pacific. They were these little huts/villas, probably made of palm tree. They are very open and there are probably eight of them. They are all connected mainly by stepping stones in the pool. Please help!
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